Psychology, changes and hair…
Finally, how easy is it to “cut it” (the hair)?
Even if it’s for a good cause. Recently in a conversation with a hairdresser friend of mine she mentioned an incident. A girl would cut off her hair to donate it. A gesture of selflessness with quite positive emotions that boost your psychology. Yet the girl had a hesitation. She knew how much what she was doing was helping and how much joy it would bring to another woman. But he had a concern. What happens next…
Our society has taught us that the length, style and colour of our hair defines us. How many times our psychology depends on our hair? The well-known bad hair day. And that’s why we were emotionally invested in them.
Psychology and “hair”
Of course a hair that fits us and makes us feel good is very important. But the length doesn’t matter. Don’t forget that the wool is renewed quite often! They say that “when a woman changes her hair, she is going to change her life”. I agree! And I would add, her psychology. In general, people need change. And what could be easier than changing your hair. Especially if you have healthy hair, you can donate them! Giving is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself and your psychology.
What if I don’t like it?
You think about it, you postpone it, you finally decide. You’re going to the salon.
And you start “I want to make a change but I don’t know what.
I want to cut them down a little, but not too much.
Maybe we’ll change colour, but nothing extreme.”
So I come to tell you, dare! Don’t let your worries hold you back from change. Trust the expert.
If you want to make a change, talk to your hairdresser, discuss it and together you will achieve the best result. And if it says you need to cut it down a bit, don’t be afraid to do it. A woman is not only defined by her hair. Her femininity, her uniqueness, her dynamism. Some of the elements that define a woman. And there are many!
It doesn’t matter if your hair is short or long. Red or blonde. Straight or curly. Make a change. Don’t be afraid. You will be renewed. And maybe you can help somewhere. The only thing you can be sure of is that your psychology will be lifted. You’ll feel more cheerful. Happier.
So what have you got to lose?
The conclusion
It’s understandable to feel a little apprehensive. And a bigger one, although the change is big. It’s perfectly understandable that a woman who has spent a lot of her life in one colour, haircut or style would feel this way. He must first become familiar with the change he wants to make.
A little tip for you who are thinking about the big change, would be to ask your hairdresser to make small changes each time. This way the change won’t seem extreme. Another tip would be to try a wig. Ideally of good quality so as not to fool or terrify you.
One thing is for sure, change is always refreshing.