The “I will” and the “must” …

The “I will” and the “must”?!

That’s another thing! What is this?! Caaaaatse, don’t be in a hurry…

I’ll introduce you to them…

Mr. “I want” is a guy so a little optimistic, a little impulsive.
His choices usually have a cost, because usually with every choice he takes a risk.
He gives joy, he gives satisfaction to himself often and he has worked you know a lot to achieve it so he has accepted himself in the first place.

Why?

Because he is aware of his feelings. It is aware of the needs of… and don’t think he’s so cool.
It is the longing for satisfaction that fills him.
At what cost.

These people, you say, are not always likeable. People who don’t meet stereotypes very often you can even call them “lonely”.

No, don’t be afraid.

It’s not a terrible thing.
They are not alone.
They can just spoil the fun of people who break down their thought form.

They are very balanced people. Only you see the result of their efforts.
So when I grow up, I want to be Mr. “I do”.

On the other hand ..

Mr. “Must” a condescending guy.
He has no personal thought on the substance. It has stereotypes, it has principles and social prejudices.
He does not exist outside of his principles, he is stable, he is balanced and the right man everywhere.
He will never be late for an appointment, it’s not right and he will be punctual.

It has the whole package..

And he is proud of his mom, his grandmother, his aunt, his neighbor and the whole world that may not be directly involved in his life…

He does everything right. But in the evenings when he talks to himself, his heart tells him otherwise.
But he stops her. He needs to sleep. Tomorrow it works.

Really … what kind of guy would you like to be?

I don’t know what you’re accomplishing. I’m not going to answer which one is the right one.
Could you only do what you have to do?
Maybe you could or maybe you can.
But yourself?
Where would it be?
But if you did only what you wanted to do, your absolute freedom would turn into promiscuity.

So somewhere in between is the right thing to do.

Live your life without being consumed. Walk on your own principles. Without having to prove to anyone but yourself what you deserve.

We have learned to seek validation not from ourselves but from others and if we have it, everything is okay.

No! You are with you.

“I want” and “I must” may live somewhere deep inside you… But who is the protagonist?

He starred in your life.

Well?!

Ask yourself again…

Which one do you want to be?

Yours sincerely,

Synioraki Mina